After some attempts at removing packages the one that solved it for me was Color Highlighter.
Tools > Color highlighter > DISABLE
right away the speed from mouse interactively delay is nearly all gone. I would create groups of packages based on the project. That way im not running everything all the time.
I was about to give up on this too but glad i found a solution for my windows 10 64bit machine.
Thanks for the software usage, considering a valid license now