This must be the dumbest question I have ever asked
Is there a tool bar with a save button, redo etc ala n++ and if there is how do I turn it on?
There is no such thing.
File -> Save / Ctrl+SEdit -> Undo | Redo / Ctrl+Z | Ctrl+Y
That is tedious... I like the notepad save icon as it tells me as I tab through my files which ones I have altered.
So? In Sublime you don't even have to tab through them to see which ones are altered - in tab bar and side bar next to their name the "x" icon on the close button changes to "o".
You can have something even better by adding this to your preferences: